
This is my sweet girl, Kati. This is her senior picture. I can not believe she is old enough to graduate. I have home schooled her since 4th grade. For her senior year, she went to a local community college and did very well. I am very proud of her!
But, with graduating, there comes the problem of having a graduation party. At least when you have to eat gluten free. I was determined to have a totally gluten free party for her. There are enough times and enough places we go where she can not eat what she wants.
If you are facing the same dilemma as I was, hopefully this post will give you some ideas. We did not want anything fancy. She not only had family coming, but a lot of friends. Wouldn’t you know, I don’t have pictures of the food! I got to caught up in everyone being there and totally forgot! But that’s life.
My first worry was cake. I wanted something tried and true, but easy. I opted for my family Mayonnaise cake recipe. It’s so easy to put together and I knew it would turn out good. I have a large pan. It’s the size of two 9 x 13″ cake pans. It’s like a jelly roll pan, but deeper. I doubled this recipe and it worked great in that pan. I tell you, if you make this cake, no one will know it’s gluten free.
Mayonnaise Cake
1 -1/2 cups sugar
3 teaspoons soda
3 cups flour (to make gluten free, use 3 cups Pamela’s baking and pancake mix, plus 1 teaspoon xantham gum)
4 Tablespoons cocoa
1-1/2 cup water
1-1/2 teaspoon vanilla
1-1/2 cup mayonnaise
Mix together water, vanilla and mayonnaise in mixer. Add sugar, soda, flour (xantham gum if making it gluten free), and cocoa. Mix on medium speed until well blended. Pour into greased 9×13 pan and bake at 350 degrees for 35-40 min.
Easy Carmel Icing
1/2 cup butter
1 cup brown sugar
1/4 cup milk
2-1/2 cup powdered sugar
Melt butter in sauce pan; add brown sugar. Boil over low heat for 2 minutes, stirring constantly. Add milk and stir till boiling. Remove from heat. Allow to cool completely. Add powdered sugar gradually, beating will, till it reaches correct consistency. Spread over cooled cake.
My next challenge was making some kind of sandwiches. Growing up, Kati loved tuna salad. Anyone who knew her when she was little, knew she was obsessed by it. I knew we had to have tuna salad sandwiches as sort of a joke. The day before the party, I had my bread machine going overtime making bread. I used Gluten Free Pantry French Bread mix. On the day of the party, we put together the sandwiches (with the crusts cut off!). The were a hit too. Who knew everyone would love tuna salad!
For the rest of the food, we put together a list of her favorite snacks. We had cheese and crackers, cheese spread, hummus, edemame, corn chips and salsa, potato chips, Pirates Booty, M& M’s, Snickers bars, fruit with chocolate dip and a tray of veggies.
She had a great time visiting with family and friends. I was so glad when it was over. Two weeks of company and cooking just about did me in.
This weekend, I was so glad to have a weekend of not cooking for a crowd! I did grill out though :) I think there is a rule about living in Indianapolis and race day and grilling. No, we didn’t go to the race, but listened on the radio. It’s blacked out here, so we can’t watch it live.
Next weekend we are having a going away party for our drummer, Judy. This will be tricky. Most everyone there will be gluten eaters. We are grilling out burger and dogs. This is a dilemma I’m sure most of you will be faced with at one time or another. Normally, I do not allow any gluten in the house unless it’s in the basement. This however, is different. I can’t expect everyone to eat their burgers without a bun. And, it’s a pitch in. So there will be gluten in the house.
I am sure most of what they will bring, Kati and I will not be able to eat. My plan is to keep the gluten and the gluten free as separate as possible. I have a separate dining room. I think I will put all the gluten in there. I will keep the gluten free dishes in the kitchen. As far as clean up, Steve and Bryan (husband and son) can help with the clean up so I don’t have to deal with it (touch it). That’s about the best solution I can think of.
If I hadn’t had two weekends already this month where I did all the cooking myself, I would make everything for the event and not have a pitch in. But, it’s just too much. And, there are times when I think you have to compromise. This is the best way I can think to manage it. If any of you have any suggestions, I would love it. We all have to get through these times at one point or another.
Hope you all have a great Memorial Weekend. It did finally get warm enough here to wear shorts! That makes me a happy girl 