A Mother and Daughter living free from Gluten

dsc01503.jpg My name is Melanie. I have a daughter named Kati. We are the Gluti Girls! We have been living a gluten free life since January of 2007. My husband’s name is Steve. He is a musician and has a band that sometimes travels and performs together. We also have a son named Bryan. Both dad and son are gluten tolerant.

Together we have four dogs, Mable, Triniti, Grace, and Mia that occasionally make an appearance on the blog. Three of them are rat terriers which are fairly active dogs with a lot of personality. So our home is rarely quiet. They are also gluten free!

When Kati and found out we were both gluten intolerant, we were trying to think of a name for ourselves. Our favorite television show was The Gilmore Girls. We have them all on DVD. We watch and re-watch them all the time. Hence the name, The Gluti Girls.

I have always suffered from digestive problems as far back as I can remember. I’ve had health problems all of my adult life. The most major illness I’ve had was thyroid cancer at the age of 23. Eight years ago I had an extremely rare type benign tumor in my ear that had to be removed. And about 2 years ago had an extremely large fibroid tumor that was removed as well. I like to grow things.

In the fall of 2006 when my digestive symptoms got a lot worse, I was convinced I had grown something else that was causing trouble. My doctor had me screened for celiac disease. When she first told me she thought gluten was causing my problems I thought she was crazy, until I came home and started reading about it. I was shocked because it was me. This was me!

I am one that will never know for sure if I am gluten intolerant or if I have celiac. When my doctor first told me she thought I had the disease in November of 2006, she told me to stop eating gluten right away. I did and right away felt better, but after two weeks decided it would be wise to get a biopsy. Immediately I started eating gluten again and all the nasty symptoms came back. I was so sick, I thought I was going to have to start wearing Depends (adult diapers) On January 20th, after having almost two months of misery waiting to get biopsied, I gave up gluten for good.

When I went into the GI doctor to get my results, the nurse mistakingly thought I had had the genetic testing done and that it was negative. This was not correct as I had never had the genetic testing done. She was a little confused and looked though my records only to find I had not had that testing. She told me my biopsy was negative as well. But I was obviously gluten intolerant because all of my symptoms were going away. I never received a copy of my biopsy report. By the way, I had two appointments with this doctor and never saw him except for the day of my colonoscopy and upper endoscopy. This was supposedly one of the best GI doctors in the state.

Months later, after my curiosity got the best of me, I called the GI doctors office and told the secretary I wanted a copy of my report. She faxed it to me. The report was interesting in that my biopsy said my stomach had chronic inflammation and my biopsy of the villi said no significant damage. It didn’t say normal tissue like ALL the other biopsies said. It used the word significant, which is a degree of something. Not nothing, but in that persons opinion, not enough to make a difference. I think something was missed and I’ll just not know for sure.

Sometimes it’s frustrating to not know for sure. Do I have celiac or gluten intolerance? I believe I have celiac and a botched diagnosis. No one in my family has been diagnosed with celiac, but I have a long list of autoimmune diseases that run in my family including lupus and thyroid problems which is common with celiac disease. We also have numerous relatives with digestive issues, but none have ever tested. When I can afford it, I hope to get genetic testing done so I will know for sure.

My daughter had a positive blood test in March of 2007. She did not want to have a biopsy so I did not make her. She did not have the same symptoms as I did. If she gets cc she will break out in a rash. She will get a head ache and feel sick. My son had the blood screening, but it was negative. I am always suspicious of him though. He has always been underweight, a very picky eater (always get full very quickly) and his thyroid gland went out on him last spring. Only time will tell.

I started this blog because the day I found out about this way of living, I was very depressed. I remember sitting in front of the computer crying. It was all so overwhelming. Soy sauce put me over the edge. We ate out a lot and my favorite was anything asian. Especially sushi. Especially sushi rolls with anything tempura.

But then I found the gluten free bloggers. As I read how these other people were coping, I soon realized life would be ok. I knew I wanted to give back to the community that helped me. Somewhere out there, someone is just learning they will have to live the rest of their life not eating gluten. I have this blog just for that person. If that person is you, there is a whole community here to help you. Read and learn. Life will be even better than before.

12 Comments

  • love the new blog!
    I am same, inconclusive tests…
    I just say I follow a celiac diet.
    I know I have it, but really in the end the Rx is the same. Kill the gluten.
    I too miss eating out Asian. This year I will learn to cook my favorites. The GF life is so good!

  • Thanks Alexandra, Yes, Kill the gluten! I really enjoy your blog too by the way!

  • Thanks for sharing! I have had this problem for years and ended up with adrenal fatigue because I had not been diagnosed. My metabolism flat lined, meaning I didn’t have one. I gained excessive weight and became obese. Since learning that I am allergic to glutens, egg and soy, I have lost alot of weight without even trying. The Dr. put me on a medication to get my metabolism working again and I have since been taken off of it. Things are looking really good in my life now and I am feeling so much better. It is a comfort to know that others suffer from the same things that you do, and that it is not the end of the world as we know it. Your website is a blessing to me and I really enjoy it….Thanks again, Laurie

  • Thanks Laurie, Your comment is a blessing to me and is the reason I have this blog. I think it’s so important to support each other through this as it is not always easy. But, it is so great to feel better again!

  • Hi Melanie!
    I love your site and especially the humor and what great pictures! I think it is really wonderful to show pics of the products: makes it easier when shopping to locate them.
    I was never diagnosed with celiac’s but I do have insulin-resistant diabetes type2 and am overweight. It would not hurt me to make several adjustments in my diet besides for the Weight Watchers plan I am currently on and with the help of your blog I am slowly incorporating some gluten-free foods. Who knows? Maybe my IBS were related to intolerance? It can’t hurt and the food looks so much yummier than what I thought it would be.

    Thanks for writing this blog! The new one looks great, btw.

    Headpats to Trin, Mia, Gracie and Mable…..

  • Hey Kathy! I have heard that IBS will often improve with a gluten free diet. Gluten is the hardest protein for our body to digest! I’m so glad you are enjoying the blog. You know I will love on those girls for you! They are not spoiled or anything :)

  • I am also without “official” diagnosis. My celiac blood tests and biopsy were both negative, but my symptoms disappeared in a month when I started gluten and grain free diet! Thanks for the site, it’s nice to know I am not alone :)

    I never had major gastrointestinal problems, but I had depression, anxiety, low motivation and low physical exercise tolerance.

  • I am so glad to hear you say that you went GF even though the biopsy didn’t show Celiac. I had the blood tests done, but they came back negative. My doctor told me to go GF to see what happened simply because I was unable to function and there was no way I could keep going as I was any longer. The wait to see a GI was going to be 3 months at least, and then I’d still have to wait for the biopsy to be scheduled, which could take up to year after seeing the GI. And this was after my doctor put in a rush because of the severity of my illness. Within, a week of being off gluten, I was able to function. I have been GF since June 2007, and never been better!
    Thank you so much for sharing with us, it helps to know that you are not alone!

  • Michelle, I would not have waited that long either. After my biopsy I could have kept eating gluten and gone in for another biopsy after a little more time had gone by. Dr. Peter Green recommends that in his book on celiac disease. He says if you have a negetive biopsy but continue to have symptoms, then you should get another biopsy. There was no way I would continue to keep eating what I already knew was making me sick.

    Good for you for making yourself healthy!

  • Are you from Indy? I grew up in Kokomo and lived many years in Greenwood. Although I don’t miss it much after 17 years, I do miss the feel of such a safe and wholesome city…I have been GF since November of ‘07 and am finding my way fairly well due to you and other who care enough to share your lives. Anyway, I really enjoy your site and wish you the best~
    Tami

  • Tami, Yes we are in Indy. I love it here. It’s like a small town big city. You would probably not recognize Greenwood if you’ve not been here in a while. It’s changed so much! The traffic has gotten horrible! But I still love it.

  • It’s funny what you stumble upon on the internet… I was looking for gluten free/low carb celiac recipes tonight and the “Glutigirl” caught my attention- cute name! I was diagnosed in June 2007 with Celiac disease, and was completely suprised with the diagnosis- up until last spring, I never remember having stomach problems. I originally saw my PCP because I thought that I had an ulcer- I was finishing my graduate degree and working full time in Nashville while my husband had to relocate for work (to Indy actually) and so I thought that my stomach problems were just stress related… I am thankful that my doctor thought to test me for celiac, though, because my blood titers were through the roof and a biopsy confirmed that my intestine was a slippery mess. Adjusting to the GF lifestyle has definitely been challenging- my husband and I love to dine out, but when I cheat and eat freely I always pay the price about 2 days later and it’s miserable! It’s nice to hear about others out there, though, with the same gluten battles!

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